Been doing the online dating thing for about 3 months now. Something happened via email yesterday morning that made me sort of snap!
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I turned down a person for a date. I mean, we are so desperate and all. Why would I turn him down? I almost wrote it all and sent it out last night, but I decided I need to cool off first.
This was after a very rude string of back and forth emails with someone very hate filled that I turned down for a date. I decided to cool down and wait 24 hours before I blurted it all out here. I am getting so mature in my old age. I loved these men to pieces and they loved me back.
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Total unconditional love and everyone should be loved as well as I have been loved. Truly amazing men who were great friends, fantastic supporters of mine and some of my best cheerleaders for all of my crazy business ideas.
Men that treated me like a goddess and that always made me feel beautiful and sexy. Just so blessed in that department so I have no complaints. And, for the most part, the online dating adventure has been exactly that. But, there have been a few interactions that have gone really really bad.
I mean, like really bad. All because I am fat. Now, I am certain that this sort of thing happens to women of all sizes and shapes. Probably not just to fat women.
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It is so fascinating how one moment someone is basically begging me to go on a date with them and then the next minute, after I politely turn them down, that it turns so ugly. I never even met this person.
And, to think I almost did. March 11, How many dating sites are out there at this point? There seem to be hundreds. I know folks who have met their partners on Match. The idea behind Bumble, a newer dating app, where only women can send the first message, intrigues me.
Another new app, WooPlus, features plus-size men and women and their admirers. So many sites and apps to choose from! In fact, I encourage you to explore and see which ones feel welcoming or fun.
But the one I recommend is OKCupid. Whatever sites, apps, and dating strategies you put your energy into, make sure OKCupid is a part of your dating portfolio. Not two percent, or 0. So how do you find these rare fellas?
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But OKCupid has a way so simple, it almost seems too easy. You use the match questions. OKCupid has this feature where you answer hundreds of personal questions about yourself.
It takes your answers and sends them straight to the NSA. It takes your answers and inputs them into its evidence-based algorithm in order to find your perfect-fit matches.
Now, there are ways to make this system really work well for you. Just a side note: This can be discouraging at first. When I see one, I click off his profile and never look back. On to the next!
OKCupid features both picture and personality. One of the lessons in my Plus-Size Dating Starter Course walks you through the process of setting up a simple profile — check it out. Those swipe-right, swipe-left sites are just much simpler to set up. And that is so true, my friend!
It can be so tempting to draw from that trove of old photos from back when you were a size 12 or whatever, squeezed into those straight-size slacks and just gleaming with self-confidence. Unfortunately, old, out-of-date pictures lead to some awkward and downright bad dates.